Delirium Today | By: +Maria Y
Posted: 12/31/2013
It's been [over] two months now since the Washington DC incident with Miriam Carey, who tried to drive up to the White House, was chased away by the police, led them on a high speed chase and was then shot. Tragically, she had her child in the backseat. It later came out that Carey was suffering from severe postpartum depression, and had been battling mental illness for quite a while. She apparently believed that President Obama was stalking her because she was the "prophet of Stamford" (Stamford Connecticut, where she was from) and thought that people were videotaping her through her windows. She had even made a 911 called to this effect and was apparently hearing voices and trying to get to the President. She also had recently lost her job, suffered a bad fall, and was in serious financial trouble. Naturally there was the obligatory misogyny, racism, and making fun of mental illness all over the Internet; unfortunately that's come to be expected whenever something like this happens.
But the incident also sparked several discussions on mental illness and lack of adequate care for those who are mentally ill; especially women and minorities. It's become common knowledge that her family, especially her boyfriend, wanted her to get more help and feared for her and their baby, even worrying that she might hurt the baby. He called and reported these concerns to the cops, which resulted in them coming over to place the baby [in] temporary care. Carey however, did not want to let them have the baby; as she was afraid that the whole thing was being broadcast on national television. As a result she was cuffed and taken to the hospital, but didn't stay there very long before she was released, reported by The Daily Beast.
Her family, seemingly out of embarrassment, now denies having any type of mental disorder, and now wants the FBI to investigate the incident. Yet it was common knowledge among her family and friends that she was having trouble, and even now they still say she was a "troubled soul."
Several members of her family had encouraged her to get help. She did get some [help it seemed] -- when they searched her home, they found all sorts of mood medications and medications for schizophrenia. The meds apparently had helped some [it was reported and she had a] brief hospitalization, but when she stopped taking her meds, things may have spiraled out of control.
Not long after this incident, I remember participating in a discussion where people were debating: "Should her family have forced her to get care?" Some said they were negligent for not doing so; which isn't exactly fair because they could hardly have predicted what would happen. Others talked about free will, is it fair to force someone to get help? Carey was not violent in any way.
Another defining question of this whole incident was: why was she shot? That was something that I myself wondered. I understand security is tight, that someone trying to get near the president is of course a concern; but this was not an armed terrorist, and it became clear pretty quickly that the woman was unarmed and she had a child in the backseat. Instead of shooting her, why didn't they shoot out the tires of her car so she couldn't drive off and come and get her? She could've been sedated, taken to the hospital, and given care. It may not of been the best scenario, but she would've been alive. Now her child is not only going to have to grow up without a mother, everyone is going to know how her mother died and how sick she was. It seems that too often, the police shoot first and ask questions later, [especially in mental health cases]; even nonviolent ones. Well in this case (which was unique because of the presidential factor), supposedly it was mostly because of the security issue, and them worrying that she might have a car bomb, reported by MSNBC.
Surely something could've been done differently to help this poor woman. I'm sure it became obvious to her doctors after she gave birth that she had postpartum depression, which is not exactly an uncommon problem. Why was she not given more counseling? Was there a follow up? In some hospitals, counseling after birth to ascertain a woman's mental health status is mandatory. Would that have saved Carey? Had her family had been more forceful about her getting help more consistently, had the police not acted as rashly, would she still be with us?
No one can definitively answer these questions, but our entire society should treat this experience as a learning one, and use it as an excuse to change police reactions and take a look at the status of mental health care in this country, especially for postpartum women, the disabled, the poor, LGBT, minorities, etc. We should work to reduce the stigma around mental health. I'm sure this was at least one of the reasons Carey feared getting consistent mental health care. The new Affordable Care Act (Obamacare) has provisions that are finally going to make mental disorders more affordable; a definite step in the right direction.
An innocent women who is guilty of nothing more than being a victim of an illness is dead. Her death need not be in vain, but we as a society have to start constructively talking about this, and to listen to the lessons such circumstances teach us. How many more Miriam Carey's have to die before we take Mental Health Care seriously?